LDS General Conference Journals

LDS General Conference is just around the corner. I love conference and the peace that comes from the inspired messages. I especially love it when I can actually sit and listen to the speakers. With 6 kids 12 and under, that is not always an easy task.  I have tried several ideas to make conference more meaningful for my kids, and more relaxing for me. Some ideas have worked better than others. We have tried conference bingo, tents in the living room, and envelopes with a candy, just to name a few.

I am not a huge fan of the projects that take a lot of beforehand shopping and prepping, or of activities that get turned into a circus by my toddlers. Simplicity seems to be the key for us (and less sugar). I have loved coloring books and journals for my older kids.

Conference journals have been super effective for us. When we have them, my kids want to make sure they have something written or drawn for each speaker. Yeah!

Last week I saw the idea to put tabs on the journals and personalize them beforehand. I loved that idea, but could not find updated tabs for the current General Authorities, so I decided to made my own.

I showed my kids the idea and got out the scrapbooking paper, scissors, and glue. They spent hours laughing and helping each other on this project. Now even my littles have a book to color in during conference. They keep asking me how many days until conference because they are so excited.

We used 5×7 inch journals which were only 67 cents a piece at Walmart. My kids decorated the journals with pattern paper. They traced the journals on the paper and cut it to fit. We found that Elmer’s glue worked best to glue the paper to the covers.

We printed the prophet tabs on card stock and glued them on every other page with a glue stick. If you line the edge of the picture up with the edge of the page, the black tabs stick out perfectly and evenly.

My kids got a little fancy and laminated their tabs, but they look great even if you don’t.

I also found some cute activities from The Friend and online (including this site) and modified them to be current. We printed those on regular paper and put them in the backs of the journals.
 
Since my kids enjoyed this project so much, we also made these journals in Activity Days.

Now we are all set for conference. I am thinking we will have a bowl of trail mix to enjoy while we write. Let me know how your books turn out. What other ideas for conference do you love?

PDF Version of these files:

The Apostle Tabs:

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Conference Activities:

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Toy-free bedrooms: How to create a playroom for your kids!

Organized playroom bedroom idea

Legos. Plastic animals. Wadded-up paper. Game pieces. Books. Littlest Pet Shops. Sucker sticks. Hot wheels. Legos. Puzzle pieces. Doll clothes. Balled-up socks. And more Legos.

This is what I found under, behind, and IN my son’s bed only 3 weeks after a major deep-clean of his room. This absolute madness was discovered when he crawled into bed and cried out because he kneeled on a stinkin’ Lego!

It was time to take matters into my own hands. My mommy-brain started whirling, thinking of what I could do stop the insanity! Cleaning this room was an overwhelming task for his 4-year-old self, and I was tired of having to be the helper. So I came up with a genius, never-before-thought-of plan.

I was going to create a playroom! One room that held all the toys. And the kids could play with them IN THAT ROOM. Brilliant, right?

OK, maybe it wasn’t a completely unique idea, but it never dawned on me before to have a room for playing and a separate room for … wait for it … sleeping! A whole new definition of the word bed-room. A toy-free zone whose sole purpose was to be a relaxing, calming space that encouraged rest. Peaceful slumber. No distractions. Sounds like bliss, right? The noisy, colorful, tempting toys were definitely not helping to create that kind of environment.

You may be thinking, “Nice plan, genius, but I have no extra space to give over to toys!” Hey, I get it! I think most of us are in that boat. We’ve all got different housing setups, and maybe you think there isn’t room to spare! Keep your mind open; I know there is a way to make it happen for you if you really want it!

Combine the kids

Maybe you need to have kids share bedrooms (that contain no toys) so you can have one playroom for all your kids. We had 3 kids sharing one small bedroom by using a bunk bed and a toddler bed at one point. All the clothes were kept in the closet – and there were no toys to be seen. It was a snap to clean – blankets on beds, clothes in the hamper, and done! I’ve heard of families with wall-to-wall mattresses on the floor for their kids to sleep on. I personally love having all my kids in one room. The lights-out conversations and giggles are priceless memories for me, and the bonds will last a lifetime.

Combine children into one bedroom

Cozy corners

Maybe you can only section off a part of a main room as a toy area. There are sturdy, inexpensive shelving units that can double as dividers and toy storage. Even an area rug or tot-sized table can isolate a space intended for imaginative play. You could get a room divider if you wanted!

Organize

Next, pull out whatever you are already using (or not using) to store and organize your toys and look at it with new eyes – where can I put this shelf? How can I use this hanging basket in a different way? Or have a talented friend help you configure it. This kind of vision is not one of my gifts, but I bet you have people around you who LOVE this kind of challenge – I know I have several friends who do! You can also look on yard sale sites or in classified ads where people are selling furniture to find that perfect second-hand item inexpensively.

It’s so much easier to clean up when you have a place for everything. Use labels on bins and shelves to remind everyone where things belong. You can use a label-maker for small areas like bookshelves, you can write on tape, you can buy labels at the dollar store, or you could use adhesive vinyl labels.

Decorate!

Now is the fun part! You get to use your imagination and talents to make your toy room into the kind of environment that will inspire creative, imaginative play! What does this mean to you? For me, I like to go with a theme! Are your kids into dinosaurs or unicorns? Do they love science or Star Wars? Superheroes or princesses? Some cute figurines or stuffed animals, framed pictures, or vinyl wall decals are quick and easy ways to jazz up your playroom with a fun theme.

Just as importantly, what do YOU love? For my kids, I wanted a sky theme with blue-painted walls, fluffy clouds, kites and hot air balloons. Chances are, if you love it, your enthusiasm will be contagious and your kids will as well.

Maybe you want to do activity centers, or store half your toys and swap them out after a few weeks. Old toys become fresh and new when they haven’t been seen in a while!

Customize

You can make this playroom be exactly what you want it to be with some adorable personalization. In addition to customized storage bin labels to keep everything organized, you can help your kids feel ownership of their space (as well as avoid a few fights) by doing fun things like putting their name on the back of their very own chair, or using personalized wall decorations. There are so many cute quotes that work great in playrooms, too!

If you are looking for more playroom inspiration or specific themed decor, go to our website at CustomVinylDecor.com and check out all the designs we have posted! Pinterest is also chock-full of ideas to help you create your dream playroom, in any size room and within any budget.

Kids grow up fast and these early years of play are over quickly. Enjoy this time with your children!

DIY Graduation Gift YETI Tumbler with Vinyl Sticker

My sister teaches a group of youth and several of them were graduating from high school this year.  She absolutely adores them, plus she’s awesome so I knew she was going to come up with the perfect gift for them when she called me and asked if I could make some vinyl for her.  She had purchased 12 YETI tumblers – that’s a real status symbol to these 18 year olds! – and wanted to put a unique message on there. Enter – da da da dum! – vinyl.  These were just the ticket and made these YETI cups look amazing.  They are so easy to stick to the metal. The kids felt very special and loved them.  Another great idea if you’re looking for the perfect gift for Seniors. Click here to view and purchase this item.

 

Direct Sales Parties Lost Popularity Because of Internet Alternatives

The Demise of Home Decor Direct Sales Parties

Home Decor Direct Sales Parties No Longer Popular

If you’ve been doing home decor stuff over the last couple decades, you might remember a company called Home Interiors and Gifts, a direct sales company focused on craftsy stuff that women love. The former giant player in the home decor industry saw its growth peak in 2003, when it reached $615 million in sales on products that ranged from tea pots to decorations for holidays and special events. Over the years that followed 2003, direct sales and the party environment quickly weakened for companies like Home Interiors and Gifts. The next several years saw decreases in sales for Home Interiors and Gifts, which served as an index of the overall home decor party direct sales market. By 2007, their sales had dropped to less than half of their peak.  By 2008, the company declared bankruptcy. Home Interiors and most of its subsidiaries (its Canadian and Mexican affiliates along with one subsidiary, Dormistyle Inc., were excluded from the bankruptcy) were reeling, and the company would never recover.

So what happened to companies like Home Interior and Gifts and others who used the direct sales, home party format to promote their goods? The answer is pretty obvious. eBay happened. Amazon happened. Etsy happened. As these and other forums for selling products, especially hand made home decor products, became popular, the demand for direct sales parties quickly tapered off. It is common that home decor products (as with other MLM models) sold at direct sales parties are overpriced. When there were not abundant alternatives for finding that perfect centerpiece or that quaint rug available through direct sales channels, people were willing to overpay. However, as the general population became progressively accustomed to purchasing online, even niche products, it became harder for people to justify spending 30%,40%, even double the retail price at parties for products similar to ones they could find on one of the retail, auction, or niche shopping websites.

What About Retail Stores?

If the once-titanic home party market couldn’t survive the move to online purchasing habits, what about retail stores? Are they next?

Many retailers have had to adjust their strategies to compete with online offerings. However, brick-and-mortar retail have generally operated very different from home party networks. Prices at retailers have been kept competitive with other local retail stores. Home decor purchases made at home parties were often influenced by emotional impulses and peer pressure. Retail store purchases, although still generally more expensive than online purchases, are still often considered to be fair.

My wife has come direct sales home parties with a $50 pair of earrings, for example, that were probably worth half that much. Why? Because she felt empathy for the neighbor or friend who threw the party and invited her, and because she couldn’t eat the cheesecake and drink the hot chocolate served at the party and feel justified not purchasing something in return. There was a feeling of being “shamed” into spending more money than desired on products that at least filled some kind of jewelry or home decor need.

At some point in the early 2000’s, the balance of purchasing influence moved away from the void being filled by home parties and towards the easy, private, less-pressure environment involved with purchasing online.

Retail stores still have their advantages, including satisfying the impulse buy, need-it-now niche as well as fulfilling the demand for the local shopping “experience”. 

Hosting an Afternoon Tea Party

A couple of years ago, I decided that I needed to do something special for my daughter. She is the oldest of five, and the only girl in our family. I am not quite sure how she could ever get tired of her role as queen of the castle (the boys will do just about anything for her and listen to her more than their own parents), but somehow her unanswered pleas for a sister have left a void that I was hoping to soften with some girl time. After some thinking, I decided to host a mother/daughter tea party every spring. This event is now one of the highlights of each year. If you want to make some special memories with your daughter, I would highly recommend organizing your own tea party.

Here are some helps to get you on your way to hosting a successful tea party. I would recommend making a new plan with your daughter each year. You will be able to bond so much more with your daughter if you work together in the decision making and planning. First of all, you need to decide what kind of tea party you would like to have. There are a range of options from formal to casual and everything in between. The location of your party is a factor that will really influence this decision. For example, the first year, we hosted an indoor tea party. Guests did dress up some, but because we invited a large number of people and could not seat everyone at tables, the tea party was quite casual. The second year, we decided to host a garden tea party. For this one, we set up tables outdoors with place settings already arranged for the guests. This one was able to take on a more formal feel.

Tea parties are typically held in the afternoon between lunch and dinner. This idea dates back to the origins of afternoon tea in England. You may not know that afternoon tea began in England in 1840 when Anna, the 7th Duchess of Bedford, complained of being hungry in the late afternoon. At the time, people traditionally did not eat dinner until quite late. She started having tea and snacks brought to her to tie her over until dinner, and then began inviting friends to join her. Soon it became common as fashionable society followed suit. So, if you want to be traditional, you should have your tea party somewhere around 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm. But, let’s be honest, a social gathering is fun any time of day, so don’t feel handcuffed by these time constraints.

Consider if you want a theme for your tea party. This is where you can really get creative and have a lot of fun. Maybe you would like everyone to wear a fancy hat, or perhaps you hope to adopt a mad hatter style tea time from Alice in Wonderland. Before you think about invitations or decorations, you will want to settle on your theme so everything will coordinate nicely. The first year, we chose a cottage theme. The second year, we opted for a Victorian style tea party. You can find a list of theme ideas here.

Next, you need to send out invitations. Remember that guests will look for clues on what to expect at the tea party by the look and feel of your invitations. Wording is important, but the style of your invitations should also make a clear statement about the type of tea party you are hosting. You will want to send out invitations to arrive about two weeks before the event. Not too late for planning purposes, but not so early that the party is quickly forgotten. You can verbally tell your guests about the upcoming event before then if you choose, but that should not replace a formal invitation. Now days, it is completely appropriate to send out electronic invitations by email or to select groups using social media. In fact, using electronic invitations is a great way to save on the costs of your party.

You may decide that you want your guests to follow traditional tea party rules, or at least a few of them. It has been my experience that little girls love to feel like they are doing grownup things the “correct” way. They will probably want to know how they should hold their tea cup and which foods to eat first. These little details add to the magic of the experience. If you decide that you do want your guests to use proper tea party etiquette, consider sending a list of rules you plan to follow with your invitations. You can also post these at your tea party. There are varying versions of tea party rules all over the internet. These are the ones we decided to follow.

Setting up for your tea party should be very fun, and it doesn’t have to be a lot of work. Just remember that little details make a good party great. Of course, your decorations and set up will depend on your theme. Pinterest is a good place to look for ideas. This year, we decided that for our formal style tea party that we wanted everyone to have real tea sets. I made a trip to our local thrift store and picked up enough tea sets so everyone could eat and drink on real china. This was just a little detail that made a huge impact. The little girls had so much fun and felt very special to be trusted with fine china. And since the dishes were all from the thrift store, no one had to stress about breaking anything.

An important part of the tea party is of course food. If you are serving hot tea, you will need to make sure you have enough hot water for everyone at your tables when the party starts. This can take a bit of planning for a large group, so it may be better to reserve hot beverages for a small tea party. Not into hot tea? No worries, try another drink such as iced tea. My daughter requested ice cold lemonade. Tea parties are typically characterized by finger foods such as finger sandwiches, quiche, fruits and veggies, eclairs, and petit fours. Not every dish has to be a finger food. You could, for example, serve dainty dishes of mousse, but, think small portions for afternoon tea. You may choose to prepare and set out all the food for the party yourself. This is of course a great way to make sure everything is beautiful and just how you want it when the party starts. Both years we have held tea parties, we asked our guests to each bring a dish to share, and gave suggestions of what to bring. We found that is worked out great! Since we have had 30 to 40 guests at our tea parties, pot luck style food has worked best for us, and our guests seemed excited to pick out and bring a creative finger food to share. I think it adds to the anticipation and excitement when all the girls get to take part in the preparation.

So, what do you think? Have you hosted or attended a tea party before? What are your favorite ideas? We would love to heard about your tea party experiences.